To Be Like Mary

Brother Rob’s sermon this morning included references to the death of Lazarus and the resulting reactions of his sisters, Mary and Martha (or “Motha”, as Bro. Rob so richly says in his “old South” way.)

As he talked about Mary and Martha, my mind drifted to the story of Jesus visiting their home in Luke 10:38-42. I know the story very well. Five short verses, but packed with eye opening life application.

“As Jesus and His disciples were on their way, He came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to Him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what He said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to Him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”

“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

When I study these passages, I am encouraged by the words of Jesus. He is actually telling someone to forget about the chores and focus on Him! But at the same time, I know in my heart that if I had been one of the sisters in the story, I undoubtedly would have been Martha.

The account of Martha begins very favorably. “A woman named Martha opened her home to Him.” (Very hospitable of her.) But the next thing we hear of Martha is that she was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. Wow! How easily I could replace the name Martha to say, “But Karen was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made.” I just know in my heart I would have done the exact same thing as Martha!

Then, the account of Martha takes a terrible turn for the worst. She begins to sound like…well…like my children when they believe they have been given more chores than their brother or sister.

I pray I wouldn’t have gone as far as Martha in asking The Lord Jesus Christ to reprimand my sister for not helping with the chores, but you never know! Poor Martha. She started out so great, but then she bombed!

It’s a difficult lesson for people like me. As much as I hate to admit it, I suffer from the sin of perfectionism at times. It sounds like Martha did as well. She wanted everything to be just right. As a result of her perfectionist personality, she couldn’t see what was the most important thing. She was distracted.

You might say, “So, what’s wrong with that? Why is that a sin?” The sin is not in taking care of things that need to be done or putting forth your best effort, the sin is letting things distract you from Jesus.

How many things in my life distract me from spending time with The Lord? It’s very easy to justify them. Of course I must prepare dinner, or go Christmas shopping, or do the laundry. Yes, these things might need to be done, but not at the cost of missing out on precious time with my Lord.

So in order to avoid being distracted from Jesus, I look to the other sister. Mary, the one who Jesus says “chose the right thing”. Mary knew how to prioritize. She knew what was at the top of her “to do” list for the day! Can’t you just visualize her list? At the top in BIG, BOLD letters….
SIT AT THE FEET OF JESUS AND DRINK IN EVERY WORD.

What a beautiful picture those words paint in my mind. Oh, to be like Mary!

Still, I can’t help but feel sorry for Martha. Apparently her “to do”list for the day was a little different than Mary’s.

*Send Lazarus to catch fish
*Mend the clothes
*Buy vegetables at market
*Mop the floors
*Prepare the fish
*Bake the bread
*Set the table
*Serve dinner
*Clean the dishes
*Talk to Jesus

Apparently, Jesus wasn’t concerned about a meal, or a clean house, or whatever it was that Martha was doing. He loved Martha. He wanted to spend time with her. He wanted to get to know her better, to know her thoughts and desires. He wanted to tell her stories about His Father. He wanted her to know who He really was. He said only one thing was needed and that was spending time with Him.

It’s the same for us today. Jesus desires for us to spend time with Him. He wants us to read about Him and allow The Holy Spirit to open our eyes to who He really is. He wants us to talk to Him and share with Him our thoughts and desires. He wants us to simply sit at His feet each day and drink Him in.

The world we live in calls us to be like Martha. We have so many things to do that even if we place Jesus at the top of our to do list for the day, He often gets pushed to the bottom and maybe even knocked off the page.

Jesus calls us to be like Mary. To drop everything and spend time with Him. I must admit there are days when my time alone with Him gets pushed to the bottom of my list and sometimes even off the page. Those days never seem quite right. I don’t experience the peace, wisdom, or love for others that I experience when I begin my day with The Lord. Days that begin with Jesus are days that might not be perfect, but they are days that I’m prepared for because I’ve been given wisdom and strength through my time with Him.

Lord, make me like Mary and change me when I fall into my Martha-like ways. I can’t imagine anything more splendid than sitting at Your feet and drinking in Your every word.

Striving to Be Like Mary,
Karen

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1 Comment (+add yours?)

  1. kmoon70
    Dec 04, 2012 @ 13:55:00

    Appreciate your thoughts Karen. I want to be completely devoted to our Lord but as you mentioned, get whisked away with the “To Do List.” We all should strive to be more like Mary. Love you.

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